Episode 32

This Destroys Relationships & Sabotages Your Success

In today's episode I break down the very thing that causes hidden blocks that destroy relationship and life success and it isn't anything anyone else is talking about because it took my unique path of being an educator, walking through my own relationship trauma, and witnessing the love blueprint of hundreds of clients that brought me to this finding. You'll want to listen to this a few times while contemplating your own love journey beginning while you were still in your mother's womb.

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Transcript
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Welcome to the Soul Liberated Life

Podcast, where you come to activate

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the remembrance of who you are,

unlock the gifts you're here to

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offer, and unleash the co creative

experience you're here to love through.

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I'm your host, Jodi, your soulmate

matchmaker, sharing deep wisdom and

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life intelligence through my life

and death experiences, and my gifts

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wisdom and potent messages to call

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your soul back home and into your

wildest dreams and deepest desires.

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So strap on your headphones, breathe

into your heart, expand your mind.

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Let's go.

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Welcome back to the Soul Liberated

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Life.

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Podcast where we evolve, grow, materialize

the greatest story your soul could

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ever tell in all the history of ever.

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And that story is a love story.

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Always has been, always will be,

no matter what is thrown your way.

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Everything begins with a coming home

to the truth of who you really are.

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The you your soul contracted to

be in order to create the magic

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that you're here to throw down.

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And today I'm going to share with you

a really big and important concept to

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understanding this because it's something

that's so cyclical, so insidious, and

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either building your relationships,

scaling your business, building your

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legacy, where you're able to grow together

in love, or it's completely destroying

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you, your legacy, your business.

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All of it it's something that I

spend a lot of time on with private

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clients and my mastermind clients,

healing and developing and evolving.

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And it's called psychosocial behavior.

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The original work was from Eric Erickson,

and I've been helping people through

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their love blueprint for well over a

decade, but it was brought back to my

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awareness at a higher consciousness level

a few years ago, and I cannot unsee it.

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I learned about this whole psychosocial

development stuff way back when

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I was just fresh in college at 18

years old, studying to be a teacher.

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For those of you who don't know, I

have a master's degree in education.

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And so Eric Erickson's work is around

these developmental stages that

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children go through and develop.

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In order to live a happy, connected,

intimate, kind of co creative

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relationship, not just with themselves

or not just with others, but with a

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higher power, with a higher source.

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And people are so busy trying to

avoid their past that they don't even

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realize they're still carrying it

around and then operating, behaving,

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and making decisions from their

undeveloped aspects of themselves.

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And it's literally killing our

relationships and killing the

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human race as a freaking whole.

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And it's not an easy death.

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It is a slow, painful death

to nowhere because people

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can't see what they can't see.

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It's the number one thing that I look at

to begin to bring your, your subconscious

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programming out to the surface.

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The second thing being your ancestral

and karmic patterns that you've been

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carrying with you from lifetimes

and lifetimes through your DNA.

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And in my work, we are constantly

looking at the healing and expansion

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on six different levels, the mental,

the emotional, the physical, and the

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The spiritual, which is also the soul,

as well as the energetic and then the

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psychosocial, which really when it

comes down to it is your identity.

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And most people cannot advance in

life until and unless they're working

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at all six of these levels deep.

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For example, Tony Robbins in,

in these people that talk about

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mindset and they're just like,

go do it and change your mindset.

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That's only one of these six aspects.

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If you go and begin to start doing

energy work with an energy worker, great.

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But that's just one of these aspects.

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If you're not also changing something

at the mental level, at the emotional

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level, at the soul level, at the identity

level, Then it's not going to stick.

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It's only going to feel good

for a temporary timeframe.

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And so in this work that I do, we

go all of these six levels deep.

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And there are seven major developmental

age ranges where certain psychosocial

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principles must be developed in

order to thrive in connection with

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divine source, with your higher

self, with others, as well as you

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understanding that the force really is.

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within you.

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Now I want you to know that these

age ranges are not cut and dry and

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they also build on top of each other.

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So if an earlier age range wasn't

developed you have extra work to

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do when you get to the next level.

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But because we're completely

unaware and most of us did not have

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enlightened parents in order to help

us process through these things.

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We're just now learning what actually

is going on and developing these things.

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And it's most likely healing from an

experience that happened in each of these

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phases, in each of these age ranges.

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And so if you have this idea that

you don't want to look at your

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past because the past is in the

past, That is such a misconception.

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The past is not in the past until

you actually renew a sense of when

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you bring in a sense of vitality and

aliveness, when you shift the energy,

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when you shift the story from the

past, you never leave the past there.

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You're still carrying it.

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And this is why so many people

are overwhelmed, burned out, and

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feel like the world is literally

on their shoulders because it is.

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Not only are you carrying stuff

from this lifetime of past, you're

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also carrying your ancestors

things that they haven't unpacked.

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That actually is your job is your

responsibility to unpack so that

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you don't pass the collateral

damage onto your children.

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So these age ranges again are not

cut and dry, but the first one begins

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before birth and in ranges until

around 18 months to two years old.

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And this is where you develop trust

versus The question is, can I trust

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that I am safe and nurtured to grow?

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Obviously, you're not conscious of this.

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We don't gain our conscious mind

until around seven years old.

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And what that means is that children

are actually little sponges.

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Children are tapped into

what, , it's above consciousness

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called super consciousness.

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Children are the natural mediums, natural

psychics, natural spiritually gifted.

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Because they don't have

this filter on them.

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So my dog is dreaming right now

and he's making some odd noise

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if you hear it in the background.

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And so when children are just these

open vessels, these open sponges, They

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don't have this conscious mind to think.

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One of the biggest misconceptions that

I hear parents say is, Oh, the children

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are too young to know what's going on.

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They're too young to conceptualize

that in their brain, but they

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feel everything that's going on.

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And in fact, they feel things that

you don't feel because over a period

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of time, you've actually numbed

yourself out and you've dumbed yourself

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down, forgetting that you have the

spiritual gifts inside of you too.

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So.

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When you are at this vulnerable

stage, you obviously need your

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parents in order to survive.

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You need to be nurtured by your mother.

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But one of the biggest things that

happens at this stage is This thing called

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postpartum depression, all postpartum

depression is, is the inability to let

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light in the inability to be able to

feel this power, that the whole entire

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thing of birth, this whole process of

birth, to be able to hold this beautiful

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baby, this light being without going

into a depression, a depressed state.

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Because it's a disconnection

from self and source.

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And when that happens, when

you've disconnected and please

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know, this is not a judgment.

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This is just an awareness

of what actually happens.

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My mother actually had

postpartum depression with me.

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She called it baby blues.

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Baby blues is what they

called it in the seventies.

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Okay.

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Which means that I am blue.

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I am sad because of the baby.

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The baby then is the problem.

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The baby is not the problem.

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The problem is, is that you don't love

yourself enough, and honor and keep

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yourself enough, in order to accept

this new light that's coming in for you.

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And so, we begin to question, can

I trust in something outside of

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me to protect me and guide me?

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And if our parents were disconnected,

the answer to that is no.

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And this is the foundation with

which we build everything from.

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When we didn't get this as a baby,

we will constantly be seeking it

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outside of ourselves for this.

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This is a highly critical piece.

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You may not be able to see the patterns

that I can see, but if you have trust

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issues, if patterns of trust keep

coming up in your life, most likely

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it is either from your birthing story.

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Or from past karma and all karma

is just to be clear are patterns.

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They're just energetic patterns

that are still running.

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Okay.

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They're energetic imprints that

have caused this pattern and this

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running record to still play in

your life and in your behaviors.

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And so I go in, when I teach

this in a longer way, I go in

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and show you how you're, how

they're related to your chakras.

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And when your chakras are imbalanced,

it's because these psychosocial

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areas were not fully developed.

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Part of the reason.

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And so when we do this work, we want

to make sure that we are energetically

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balancing these chakras because it's

really important in order for us to

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feel grounded, in order for us to

feel whole, in order for us to feel

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like we're not floundering in life,

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but for now, just know that this is

where your energetic cycles also begin.

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And for this one, if you feel safe,

also your crown will be developed and

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your root chakra will be balanced.

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The root chakra being the, the chakra that

causes us to either feel afraid of life.

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Or not to feel healthy and

vibrant and, ready to grow.

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And I also will go deeper into what to do

about the imbalances and other episodes.

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But for this episode, I'm just

bringing these principles and

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these aspects to your awareness.

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So you can begin to look

for them in your own life.

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Okay.

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So the second phase is around

18 months to four years old.

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And this is autonomy versus

shame and self doubt.

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So you're either developing that's

leading you in a direction of

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shame, which is I'm not enough.

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I, I don't have what it takes and I

need someone else to be enough for me.

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And so then I begin to doubt

myself and lack trust in

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myself and that sense of shame.

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Self will and self leadership.

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This is sacral energy and

sacral energy is creative.

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And yes, it's also sexual energy

because this comes online too,

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where you feel safe to explore.

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You feel safe to quote

unquote, do it yourself.

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If you think about an 18 month to

four year old, this is their job.

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Their job is to feel that autonomy.

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Their job is to recognize

how they are independent.

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And it is our job as parents to actually

give them jobs to do that they can do.

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We don't want to continue to do things for

our children that they can actually do.

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Because that causes them to then

doubt themselves and feel shame

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within themselves, feel like they're

not enough without their mommy.

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We don't want that.

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We might want that at the time

because it feels so good and we

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love our little babies so much.

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But over a period of time, if

you're still cutting their stake

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at 15, there's something wrong.

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If you're still picking out their clothes

when they're 18, there's something

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wrong there that don't have autonomy.

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I'm laughing a little bit, but

there's literally parents who do this.

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Healthy development will produce

feelings of self trust, self

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worth, self exploration, personal

willpower, a connection to nature.

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And creative play.

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And if you were restricted as a child,

if you were held by a leash, or if

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you were actually punished, punished

for your creative juice, for running

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around and being a child, and you were

punished for being a child, punished for

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being too loud, punished for spilling

glue on the floor, This is where

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you developed shame and self doubt,

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This is also where you begin to

explore yourself, where you begin

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to touch yourself, where you begin

to wake up and go, Oh, what is this?

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Let me smell it.

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Let me feel it.

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And children are constantly shamed for

doing the very thing that they're here

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to do to have autonomy with themselves.

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and this is where you stopped

developing this exploration inside

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of you, this perception of yourself

was more developed on the shame

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and self doubt end of the spectrum.

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Then I am an autonomous being.

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I am free.

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I can do things myself.

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I don't need someone

else to do things for me.

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This is where enabling comes in.

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And when that's the case, then

you're going to always seek

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permission and validation.

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From a, I need you to tell me, I

need you to direct me perspective.

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And if you had a healthy development,

then your third eye opens and creative

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vision begins to develop because you

are allowed to work with your hands

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and move energy with your hands.

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You're here to at this phase, play

in the dirt and move the energy.

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The soul needs to move the hands.

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The soul is not led through

the head, through the thinking.

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We need to go back to

being a three year old.

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We need to go back to exploring

life like a three year old.

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I remember after my husband died, and

I had our third child six months after

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he died, and I, this was part of the

process in me realizing the love blueprint

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and what happens to our mind after a

traumatic event such as this divorce

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disease, uh, death of a loved one, death,

especially of a mother or even a father.

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These, these crisis, these traumatic

events that cause a complete

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disruption in who we thought we were.

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We go back to these places in

our psychosocial development.

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stages and I remember literally feeling

like I was growing up with my baby because

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as she hit these different developmental

stages, I was going back in time in my

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trauma brain and my post trauma brain to

heal these parts of myself that didn't

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quite get developed when I was a child.

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And I remember this.

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time Specifically when I was so

in awe of nature I was in my three

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year old self and I saw this ant

crawling on the ground and I was

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just like Wow Like holy fucking shit.

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This is life.

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Look at this ant Look at the

power that this ant has Like,

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how amazing are God's creatures?

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How amazing are just life itself?

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And how every little thing

holds a piece to this puzzle.

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This is the three year old self.

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This is the developmental

stage of that area.

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The next stage is four to six years old,

and this is initiative versus guilt.

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Guilt meaning Am I good or am I bad?

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Am I doing something wrong or

am I doing something right?

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This is where an underdeveloped,

underdeveloped space will

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cause people pleasing.

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Where you'll be looking outside

of yourself for approval.

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If you lacked the space to grow and

develop in this area, you'll avoid guilt,

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like the freaking plague and possibly

have behaviors that you're either running

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away from when things get too deep.

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When, when the pressure gets too much,

because you're afraid to feel what it

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really is and what it really is, is

afraid to listen to this carefully.

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What guilt really is, is a

fear of outgrowing your mother.

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That's what it is.

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And it doesn't matter what kind of

relationship you have with your mother

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because this is a primal unconscious

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Because guilt, guilt is an

emotion, is a masculine construct.

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Guilt means that you, there's

something that you're doing.

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Doing being the masculine.

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Shame is a feminine construct.

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Shame is I am.

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I am is who you're being.

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I am being.

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That's a feminine construct.

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Guilt means that you have, there's

some movement that you're either

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needing to make, or you have

already made that you feel guilt.

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There is no growth in evolution until

you walk through a portal of guilt.

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And you don't walk through the

portal of guilt, unless you go

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through a grieving process around

your relationship with your mother.

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And most people will never get

past this point one, because they

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don't understand what it really is.

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And two, they're literally petrified

to admit the guilt, to really look

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at the whole entire scenario of

why they're resisting growing and

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realize that guilt is the thing.

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So I see this in

relationships all the time.

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When there is sabotage and resistance

to growth and change, it is this.

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And this is solar plexus stuff.

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Solar plexus is your power center.

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It's where we develop a sense

of sovereignty and leadership

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and direction and purpose.

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This is initiative.

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You take initiative, you move, you

have responsibility, which is the

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ability to respond to more life

and a greater love experience.

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That's what responsibility is.

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If we had overbearing parents or

our childhood was scary, we will

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lack our own free will and act and

behave in unconscious ways as if

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we're still five years old, looking

for our parents love and direction.

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Even if our parents and actually mostly

if our parents punished us for being who

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we really were or did not recognize and

validate us for our own little genius.

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When we didn't have the space and support

to process and grow and develop our own

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sovereignty in these first phases, we

will not have what is needed for the next

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phase, which is around ages six to 12.

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And again, these are ranges.

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It could be, it could be that you

experience this from 7 to 13, but this

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phase is industry versus inferiority.

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This is where you begin to develop,

you know, what do I bring to the table?

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This is where our genius and our

giftedness is more explored and developed.

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And remember these, these phases

all build upon each other.

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So we're constantly working

and developing all of these.

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This is where we see our value

and drive our vitality and

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confidence within ourselves.

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This is also where we are tested

and teased where power struggles

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outside of the home begin.

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This is where we start school.

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This is the school range.

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Okay.

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If we were weak in this phase,

if we developed a lack of

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confidence and we begin then to

envy and want what others have.

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Instead of knowing what is

ours and confidently bringing

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our own light to the room.

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I went, I grew up in Christian school,

so the, this little gospel light

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of mine, I'm going to let it shine.

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That's what it's about.

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This is where we learn

to take from others.

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If we don't understand our own

light, and if we don't understand

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our own power, we take other, others.

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Boyfriends and others, girlfriends or

we tell the other girls don't talk to

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so and so this is a taking energy if

we don't understand what our own value

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and light is and we say to ourselves.

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Essentially, I can't so I'll have yours.

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I'm not good enough to get

my own so I'll have yours.

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This is where we begin to fight over

the one cookie, but there's another

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cookie sitting right over here.

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This is where we develop.

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I can't without you.

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This is where you begin to notice and feel

your heart though, and how your decisions

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and your actions are affecting others.

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The next phase is around 12 to 19

years old, and this is important

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because if the previous stages are

underdeveloped, you'll be super

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susceptible to outside influences.

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It's your identity versus role confusion.

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Who am I?

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And when you are feeling the pressure

of life or when a sudden event

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happens that causes you to question

everything, the first question is

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you're going to ask, who am I now?

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Who am I?

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This is where we develop

a devotion to ourselves.

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Fidelity.

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Fidelity.

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If there is infidelity in your

life, it's because this area was not

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developed in all of the previous areas.

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Fidelity, meaning being faithful

and loyal to ourselves in, in an

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integrity with our higher self.

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maintaining a sense of trust and

appropriate attachments and honoring

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ourselves in our body, honoring our

word, doing what we said we were going

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to do when we came into this one body

and into this one life, learning how

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to think for ourselves and identify

ourselves outside of our family

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unit, especially and importantly,

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if that family unit was limiting or

constricting or controlling in some way,

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if that family unit instilled fear and

doubt in you, you needed to break outside

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of the identity of your, of your family.

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And this is where you might have rebelled

without thought of any consequence.

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Knowing who you are requires

you to know where you belong

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and where you don't belong.

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And always put yourself in

the highest energy rooms.

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If there is a saying, if you

are the smartest person in the

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room, you're in the wrong room.

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Absolutely.

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And what happens is if you have an

underdeveloped area and this area, if you

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are underdeveloped in this area, in this

age range, you will continually go find

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mates and groups of people that you have

to fix or that aren't at the same level

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of standard that you know yourself to be

at, meaning you will lower your standard.

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You will lower your energetic

standard to match their standard.

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This is not, I'm not saying this in

such a way that there's a hierarchy.

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But if you know, you don't belong,

for example, a lot of people rebel

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and go into drugs at this age.

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Okay.

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If you know, that's not where you belong.

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If you know that you, you are, you

are much more of a light being than

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the people around you, but you can

also recognize that you are settling

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because of your lack of self esteem.

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That's huge.

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And as adults, we continue to do this.

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We continue to do this.

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We continue to surround ourselves.

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We continue to give our body away.

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Let things let things

let people penetrate us.

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Let men penetrate us.

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For example,

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that aren't the kind of caliber

of men that we really should

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be allowing penetrate us.

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Let that land.

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This is a throat chakra development area.

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Throat chakra because you're

developing self expression, but

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also it's an exploratory phase.

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The problem is is that in our process of

exploration, we have the potential to go

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down a really dark path and that really

dark path might pull us off of our true

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soul path, but the soul always corrects.

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Even though the human has this free

will, the soul always corrects.

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And right now this is 2025.

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2025 here on the soul is going to be

correcting more and more and more.

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However, if we don't heal these parts

and these aspects of ourselves, it

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continues to cause collateral damage and

pain, massive amounts of pain that are

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completely unnecessary and unjustified.

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So we want to make decisions that

are going to lift others around

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us because that includes us.

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We make decisions that could affect

our entire lives at this age.

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So self awareness and a deep development

of the previous areas are crucial

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to the development of your identity.

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And in both business and relationship

expansion, this is where we

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get hung up and stop growing.

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Because the next phase is

intimacy and isolation.

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Intimacy versus isolation.

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And at this, at these critical

times in our lives where it's time

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to scale and grow into the next

evolution, which is, which is beyond

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what your parents even created.

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And this age range is 18 to

40, which is a wide range.

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But if the foundation hasn't

been set, the scaling will

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throw us back into lower levels.

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That were underdeveloped.

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It's kind of like, you know, when

you've, you've heard the, someone

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who wins the lottery and then they

lose it all because they don't

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have the developmental capacity.

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They don't have the codes.

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They don't have the wisdom to have

scaled there themselves and gathered

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the, the deeper wisdom of, of

being, of creating that themselves.

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And so they sabotage and lose it all.

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The same thing happens if you've

done no inner development work.

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If we go through a major life event

like death of a spouse, a parent,

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disease, divorce, and also menopause

and menopause, I call it menopause

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because men have menopause too.

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We just don't talk about it in

the way that we talk about it.

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But men have menopause and menopause will

make someone have a midlife crisis where

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they lose their ever loving freaking mind.

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It's massively critical time in our

lives, where our bodies due to the

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changes that they take us back into our

past, where our trauma and unprocessed

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grief still needs to be released.

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And after these major events, we are

thrown back into these underdeveloped

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ages, and we will literally begin to

behave as if we're somewhere in the past.

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This is why If you've been out in the

dating field after divorce or something of

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that nature, and you're like, why do, why

do the men all act like they're 12 because

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this is where we stopped developing.

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And guess what?

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If you are only seeing men that

have the developmental age range

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of 12, then most likely you

have some healing to do as well.

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This is what we do in the embodied

woman or in private coaching.

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Not that it is All on you because

they have their work to do too.

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Believe me, they have

their work to do too.

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But the work that we have to

do and the work that they have

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to do is completely different.

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And we can't expect them to do the work

the way we do to do the work because

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it, it has to be completely different.

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We don't actually want them to do the

work the way we do the work, because

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that makes them overly feminine.

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We don't want that.

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We actually need them to man up.

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Okay.

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This is why we're so imbalanced in

our masculine and feminine polarity.

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This is why we have so many people

acting and behaving like children and

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why we get stuck in these cycles that

we cannot see our way out of because we

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literally have created our own prisons.

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In previous episodes, I talk about the

witness protection program and this

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is what is it, this is what it is.

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The bottom line to it all is this

is a real, This was where we started

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to see the actual fear of outgrowing

our parents in particular the

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mother, because she was the nurturer.

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She was the one who kept us alive.

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And this is also why your birth story

is so important to examine and release.

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And I have seen so many.

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So many beautiful things come out of

examining your birth story and, and this

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is not something that you're conscious of.

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So unless you've had a conversation

with your parents about your birth

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story, or you work with me privately,

you, you probably won't, you

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probably won't know your birth story.

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But if we look at the patterns, and if

you look at the patterns and you see

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certain things as you go back and listen

to this a hundred times, you And you

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see certain things you can recognize.

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I must have, I must have had some sort of

disconnection for my mother in childbirth.

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Uh, in the first six months is what

I'm talking about and more, more so in

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the first three months of your life.

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Okay.

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So these first levels, especially come

up at critical evolutionary times.

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Things like solar return at 30,

things like chiron return, which

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is a midlife, which is also

connected to the midlife crisis.

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If you've had these things that

have happened in your life, this

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is a time for spiritual awakening.

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This is a time to go back and

reidentify ourselves because you are

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the authority, the author of your life.

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No matter what circumstance

happens outside of you.

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If your commitment is to writing

the greatest story your soul has

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ever told in all the history

of ever, that part is on you.

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Now, if you're ready to go deeper into

this work, then join me in a private

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one on one setting or in my mastermind,

Soultegic, where Soul is the leading

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strategy for the embodied woman.

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I am, I'm also hosting, if you're

listening to this before January

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26th, I am hosting a free strategic

planning day on January 26th, 1

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o'clock PM central standard time.

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I'm going to put the

link in the show notes.

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And now before we go, there

is one more level to look at.

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And this one occurs between around the

ages of 40 to 64, give or take, remember

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it's a range and it is generative,

generativity versus stagnation.

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And when we get to this point where we're

feeling all of the pressure, because

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we're not standing in our true purpose.

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The reason why our soul dropped into

this very lifetime, the contract that we

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signed when we said we were coming here

onto this earth and into this one body,

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the more pressure you're going to feel.

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And you will either get to this

point where it feels like stuck.

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It will, it stagnation.

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This is not a time.

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This is not a point to quit.

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This is a time to activate.

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This is a time to create more

change, to create some movement in

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your life that moves you more in

the direction of your sole purpose.

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Because if you're not there,

you're going to get to your end.

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You're going to get to the end

days of this beautiful story that

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you're writing, and you're going

to look back at what you created,

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and it's not going to be the same.

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What you wanted it to be.

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It's not gonna be what you wanted

it to be because somewhere along the

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way You didn't do the healing work.

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You didn't go in deep enough.

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You didn't allow yourself to

have true intimacy And you

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failed the fucking assignment

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Hey, hey, I hope you enjoyed

today's transmission.

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Jodie Rodenbaugh is a Soul Liberator & Soulmate Matchmaker here to guide powerful men, women, & couples and in turn their families & into their highest relationship purpose & greatest love story their souls have ever told in all the history of ever.

Your past doesn’t define you but there is deep wisdom & life defining treasures hidden back in your earliest years and many times before you were born that are effecting your success because there is no real success without relationship success.

Gone are the days of superficial love & surface relationships. You were born to for so much more! You were born to create & allow yourself to co-create literal magic beyond your own human understanding. Soulmate kind of love requires a deep awareness of self & an unwavering connection to the most high.

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